Try a different position.  I find that if we are on our sides, my wife is
looser on me, and I can last and last.  If I am on top, she feels very
tight, and the stimulation os much stonger..so we roll from me on top to
on our sides several times, as I feel I am getting close, and we frequently
make it last over an hour this way.  Another thing I do some times when I am
getting close is to pull out and do oral on her.  She does not like me
pulling out, but she rapidly gets over it once the oral starts.  Then when I
feel the urgency go away, I go back in her for a while.


"Don" <tiredofthis12001@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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> My main problem is I have always been "premature" Nothing and no one
> seems to help. i have tried SSRI, viagra, mental therapy, everything.
> My wife does not like the "start stop" methid. Once we get going she
> does not want me to stop moving. It has really affected my self
> -esteem.
>
> So injectables keep you completely firm even after "going"? I once
> went to a urologist years ago and he said it would not.
>
> This condition just sucks and has affected past relationships also. I
> have even contemplated implants if the insurance would pay for it. (It
> wont).
>
> I have followed everyones advice. Eveyone says "do it more than once
> and you will last longer the second time." My wife does not want to do
> it a second time and it does not come up the second time unless it is
> several hours later.
>
> I am sorry, just venting.

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