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24 y/o ED update and thanks
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| chinorlzster@gmail.com 2006-09-26, 2:24 am |
| Hi guys, I just wanted to thank everyone profusely for your wonderful
support and suggestions.
I used a 20mg Cialis over the weekend while visiting the girlfriend and
it went wonderfully. She was happy, I was able to perform and actually
get a step closer to enjoying the sex instead of worrying about
maintaining an erection.
I did experience some anorgasmia and she ended up having to use
manual/oral stimulation for me to orgasm. She didn't seem to mind
though. I'm not sure if this is Cialis related, me still being nervous
(I think we need to have sex a few more times before I'm fully
comfortable in that intimate setting with her), or if it is me not
being used to the sensations of a vagina. Not becoming sexually active
until 23 and having only one other partner aside from her, my brain may
yet still be "trained" for manual stimulation.
Anyone have suggestions on this?
I took people's suggestions and used a more "penis friendly" condom
(naturalamb) which definitely felt 100x better than latex condoms, but
maybe there's something more i could do (or not do... such as less
masturbation perhaps) to "train" myself to orgasm from vaginal sex?
My girlfriend gets me hot, I easily get aroused just through kissing
sessions and such, I just currently can't orgasm through vaginal sex
alone.
Thanks again everyone! This has boosted my self confidence a
hundred-fold!
-A
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<chinorlzster@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1159248188.391141.282130@d34g2000cwd.googlegroups.com...
> Hi guys, I just wanted to thank everyone profusely for your wonderful
> support and suggestions.
>
> I used a 20mg Cialis over the weekend while visiting the girlfriend and
> it went wonderfully. She was happy, I was able to perform and actually
> get a step closer to enjoying the sex instead of worrying about
> maintaining an erection.
>
> I did experience some anorgasmia and she ended up having to use
> manual/oral stimulation for me to orgasm. She didn't seem to mind
> though. I'm not sure if this is Cialis related, me still being nervous
> (I think we need to have sex a few more times before I'm fully
> comfortable in that intimate setting with her), or if it is me not
> being used to the sensations of a vagina. Not becoming sexually active
> until 23 and having only one other partner aside from her, my brain may
> yet still be "trained" for manual stimulation.
>
> Anyone have suggestions on this?
>
> I took people's suggestions and used a more "penis friendly" condom
> (naturalamb) which definitely felt 100x better than latex condoms, but
> maybe there's something more i could do (or not do... such as less
> masturbation perhaps) to "train" myself to orgasm from vaginal sex?
>
> My girlfriend gets me hot, I easily get aroused just through kissing
> sessions and such, I just currently can't orgasm through vaginal sex
> alone.
Is she tight enough? How old is she?
>
> Thanks again everyone! This has boosted my self confidence a
> hundred-fold!
>
> -A
>
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| chinorlzster@gmail.com wrote:
> Hi guys, I just wanted to thank everyone profusely for your wonderful
> support and suggestions.
>
> I used a 20mg Cialis over the weekend while visiting the girlfriend and
> it went wonderfully. She was happy, I was able to perform and actually
> get a step closer to enjoying the sex instead of worrying about
> maintaining an erection.
>
> I did experience some anorgasmia and she ended up having to use
> manual/oral stimulation for me to orgasm. She didn't seem to mind
> though. I'm not sure if this is Cialis related, me still being nervous
> (I think we need to have sex a few more times before I'm fully
> comfortable in that intimate setting with her), or if it is me not
> being used to the sensations of a vagina. Not becoming sexually active
> until 23 and having only one other partner aside from her, my brain may
> yet still be "trained" for manual stimulation.
>
> Anyone have suggestions on this?
You're on the right track. No objectives, no goals--just enjoying your
g/f, enjoying yourself and enjoying both of you together.
>
> I took people's suggestions and used a more "penis friendly" condom
> (naturalamb) which definitely felt 100x better than latex condoms,
My limited experience says that women also prefer 'skins' to latex
condoms. As you may have noticed, one of the advantages of a 'skin' is
that it transmits body warmth far better than do latex or polyurethane
condoms. Remember though that while a skin can protect against organism
based STD's it's no good for viruses. (I think you recognized this in
an earlier post.)
Twenty years ago "Four X" (XXXX) was another good brand of skin condom.
They were packed folded rather than rolled. (slip-on with a blue
elastic band at the base to hold it in place.) Slightly different
fragrance to the fluid in the pack.
but
> maybe there's something more i could do (or not do... such as less
> masturbation perhaps) to "train" myself to orgasm from vaginal sex?
No need to "do anything more." Just enjoy. Remember that dame nature
(evolution) has been perfecting our 'programming' for several million
years and everything is in place, ready for use. We are remarkably
"average" and so are women. We are also very imaginative, creative, and
adaptive. So are women.
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> My girlfriend gets me hot, I easily get aroused just through kissing
> sessions and such, I just currently can't orgasm through vaginal sex
> alone.
Once you and your g/f commit to one another -- a couple of months from
now, I'd suggest discussing an alternative contraceptive scheme.
There's nothing quite like having your mate shove her cervix down on
your bare glans to enhance the sensation.
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> Thanks again everyone! This has boosted my self confidence a
> hundred-fold!
>
> -A
>
....Lmac
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| Try different positions until you find one that's very stimulating for you.
I'm sure she'll enjoy the experimentation too. You're doing great--have
fun!!
<chinorlzster@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1159248188.391141.282130@d34g2000cwd.googlegroups.com...
> Hi guys, I just wanted to thank everyone profusely for your wonderful
> support and suggestions.
>
> I used a 20mg Cialis over the weekend while visiting the girlfriend and
> it went wonderfully. She was happy, I was able to perform and actually
> get a step closer to enjoying the sex instead of worrying about
> maintaining an erection.
>
> I did experience some anorgasmia and she ended up having to use
> manual/oral stimulation for me to orgasm. She didn't seem to mind
> though. I'm not sure if this is Cialis related, me still being nervous
> (I think we need to have sex a few more times before I'm fully
> comfortable in that intimate setting with her), or if it is me not
> being used to the sensations of a vagina. Not becoming sexually active
> until 23 and having only one other partner aside from her, my brain may
> yet still be "trained" for manual stimulation.
>
> Anyone have suggestions on this?
>
> I took people's suggestions and used a more "penis friendly" condom
> (naturalamb) which definitely felt 100x better than latex condoms, but
> maybe there's something more i could do (or not do... such as less
> masturbation perhaps) to "train" myself to orgasm from vaginal sex?
>
> My girlfriend gets me hot, I easily get aroused just through kissing
> sessions and such, I just currently can't orgasm through vaginal sex
> alone.
>
> Thanks again everyone! This has boosted my self confidence a
> hundred-fold!
>
> -A
>
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| chinorlzster@gmail.com 2006-09-28, 8:23 am |
| Thanks again guys!
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