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| i'm a 24 yearold male, i lost my verginity at the age of 19. I've
slept with 10 diff. women and have never ejaculated during sex. I have
an average size and thickness, but i always have to pleasure my self.
When i'm alone it takes 10 min. when im with a woman it takes between 1
and 3 hours. I'm not gay and i'm beginning to think its my nerves.
I'm a womans dream and a mans nightmare, i'd rather be a 2 stroke joke
than nothing, does anybody out there know how to cure me? im not on
any meds and haven't been for over 2 years.
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| Usenet Poster 2006-08-29, 4:22 pm |
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"Steve" <sgreenshields@excite.com> wrote in message
news:1156739526.933480.162090@74g2000cwt.googlegroups.com...
> i'm a 24 yearold male, i lost my verginity at the age of 19. I've
> slept with 10 diff. women and have never ejaculated during sex. I have
> an average size and thickness, but i always have to pleasure my self.
> When i'm alone it takes 10 min. when im with a woman it takes between 1
> and 3 hours. I'm not gay and i'm beginning to think its my nerves.
> I'm a womans dream and a mans nightmare, i'd rather be a 2 stroke joke
> than nothing, does anybody out there know how to cure me? im not on
> any meds and haven't been for over 2 years.
Steve - you already know what the problem is. It's all in your mind - that
is, you've fallen into that vicious circle where the very thing you worry
about is happening *because* you're worrying about it. There is physically
nothing wrong with you whatsoever - you're just getting all worked up about
not being able to come. My advice would be to get yourself a girlfriend and
enjoy 'making love' rather than putting on a performance. Once you're truely
comfortable with that person, the anxiety will just disappear!
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| Michael 2006-09-11, 2:21 am |
| Advice....if it doesn't clear up...see a therapist...don't wait forever.
"Usenet Poster" <me@privacy.net> wrote in message
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> "Steve" <sgreenshields@excite.com> wrote in message
> news:1156739526.933480.162090@74g2000cwt.googlegroups.com...
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> Steve - you already know what the problem is. It's all in your mind - that
> is, you've fallen into that vicious circle where the very thing you worry
> about is happening *because* you're worrying about it. There is physically
> nothing wrong with you whatsoever - you're just getting all worked up
> about not being able to come. My advice would be to get yourself a
> girlfriend and enjoy 'making love' rather than putting on a performance.
> Once you're truely comfortable with that person, the anxiety will just
> disappear!
>
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