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Coming soft..........
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| Hi there,
just turned fifty........ :-(
Anyhow becuse of long time social isolation (sexual) , I decided for my
birthday to go see a chick, an oriental chick that advertises in the
paper. I must admit I was really nervous because of the circomstance
(paying) and because it was a very long time i haven't got laid.
Anyhow she starts to blow me, and within seconds, I can feel it
starting to come thru, even not erected, and it was whoa, hold on. I
was embarassed to tell her to stop.
Another time the same ting happen this beautiful chick started wacking
me off, and within a minute I was coming, didn't have a chance to get
hard.
So now I don't know if this is because I'm getting old, or because I'm
not getting laid regularly.
Thanks kindly for any pointers
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| c palmer 2006-07-19, 4:21 pm |
| From: wallydiver_19@hotmail.com (Liam)
Hi there,
just turned fifty........ :-(
Anyhow becuse of long time social isolation (sexual) , I decided for my
birthday to go see a chick, an oriental chick that advertises in the
paper. I must admit I was really nervous because of the circomstance
(paying) and because it was a very long time i haven't got laid. Anyhow
she starts to blow me, and within seconds, I can feel it starting to
come thru, even not erected, and it was whoa, hold on. I was embarassed
to tell her to stop.
Another time the same ting happen this beautiful chick started wacking
me off, and within a minute I was coming, didn't have a chance to get
hard.
So now I don't know if this is because I'm getting old, or because I'm
not getting laid regularly.
Thanks kindly for any pointers
======> ever see a 90 year with an erection?
same for a prostate cancer survivor within the first year or two.
and the same thing is going to happen to the male body as it ages.
why? part of it is called 'male menopause'
as the T levels drop from the aging process, it will get to where you
don't sleep as well as night, make nightly trip to the bathroom, to
where the erections aren't as firm to where both the force and amount is
reduced.
why? on the last part? two reasons.
1. T is responsible for muscle tone in the body. that is why, when you
are a teenager, your body bulked up and you got stronger. as you age,
and the T level drops, so does that muscle tone. the muscles that
control the functions are not as strong. it doesn't hold the blood
inside as well and it gets softer. take longer to get an erection too
for the same reason. same reason is behind the reduce force. losing
muscle mass and tone. now, each male is affected differently and there
is a age difference as to when this takes place, but time wins out
overall.
2. the T level is very critical to muscle mass and tone. that is why if
you have prostate cancer and get put on ADT (therapy that shuts down the
T in the body) you are at risk for a heart attack because of the loss
of muscle mass and tone.
the things they don't tell you as you age.
~ curtis
knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
"Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is
invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
http://community.webtv.net/PALMER_ENT/doc
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| Thanks Curtis,
I guess then that T supplementation could be an answer.....and accept
that things will get worst (maybe stockup prozac) ;-)
Thanx again
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> ======> ever see a 90 year with an erection?
>
> same for a prostate cancer survivor within the first year or two.
>
> and the same thing is going to happen to the male body as it ages.
>
> why? part of it is called 'male menopause'
> as the T levels drop from the aging process, it will get to where you
> don't sleep as well as night, make nightly trip to the bathroom, to
> where the erections aren't as firm to where both the force and amount is
> reduced.
>
> why? on the last part? two reasons.
>
> 1. T is responsible for muscle tone in the body. that is why, when you
> are a teenager, your body bulked up and you got stronger. as you age,
> and the T level drops, so does that muscle tone. the muscles that
> control the functions are not as strong. it doesn't hold the blood
> inside as well and it gets softer. take longer to get an erection too
> for the same reason. same reason is behind the reduce force. losing
> muscle mass and tone. now, each male is affected differently and there
> is a age difference as to when this takes place, but time wins out
> overall.
>
> 2. the T level is very critical to muscle mass and tone. that is why if
> you have prostate cancer and get put on ADT (therapy that shuts down the
> T in the body) you are at risk for a heart attack because of the loss
> of muscle mass and tone.
>
> the things they don't tell you as you age.
>
> ~ curtis
>
> knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
> "Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is
> invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
> http://community.webtv.net/PALMER_ENT/doc
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| Michael 2006-07-20, 2:21 am |
| I am in my early fifties and I don't see it as quite a physical issue in
your case. When I visited a hooker, I had sort of the same experience, but I
know that I can get rock hard in the right circumstances. Can you? In other
words, if you can get hard through masturbation or morning erections, then
the cause is mainly psychological. You said you were a bit nervous, right? I
was, too. After all, I think a lot of guys are going to be a little nervous
trying to get off with someone they just met. It's that nervousness that
contributes to the mixed messages that your penis is getting. If you are
nervous, your body is reacting by restricting blood flow to the penis,
counteracting the stimulus that you are receiving from her.
Relax the best you can. Why tell her to stop? If you can cum while she is
blowing you, go ahead and do it. I did, and I still felt the experience was
worth it.
Michael
"Liam" <wallydiver_19@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:1153332931.110477.256510@s13g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
> Hi there,
>
> just turned fifty........ :-(
> Anyhow becuse of long time social isolation (sexual) , I decided for my
> birthday to go see a chick, an oriental chick that advertises in the
> paper. I must admit I was really nervous because of the circomstance
> (paying) and because it was a very long time i haven't got laid.
> Anyhow she starts to blow me, and within seconds, I can feel it
> starting to come thru, even not erected, and it was whoa, hold on. I
> was embarassed to tell her to stop.
>
> Another time the same ting happen this beautiful chick started wacking
> me off, and within a minute I was coming, didn't have a chance to get
> hard.
>
> So now I don't know if this is because I'm getting old, or because I'm
> not getting laid regularly.
>
> Thanks kindly for any pointers
>
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| Thanks Michael
I think you might be right, I do get hard masturbating, and I wake
UP At night a sorta of hard, the morning I use to wake up with a
wicked boner, but thats not happening....so partiallt it could be the
age too. I think your defenitly right about the nervousness, I get
really nervous, in new meetings. My mind races, what if this?, what if
that?, what if this is a cop sting? I drive myself crazy.....I have to
find someone steady....
With that asian chick I had her finish me of blowing me because I was
to excited or nervous, so after playing a bit i told here just to
finish me off by blowing, and then for some reason mr happy decided to
behave and it became harder and I came. The reason I told her to stop
was because I wanted intercourse, but its ok ...if it will take me a
couple a times to relax ....thats fine too.
Was decent of you to share some of your personal expierence, I
appreciate it.
Thanks Liam
ps i have more questions I'll post them latter
Michael wrote:[vbcol=seagreen]
> I am in my early fifties and I don't see it as quite a physical issue in
> your case. When I visited a hooker, I had sort of the same experience, but I
> know that I can get rock hard in the right circumstances. Can you? In other
> words, if you can get hard through masturbation or morning erections, then
> the cause is mainly psychological. You said you were a bit nervous, right? I
> was, too. After all, I think a lot of guys are going to be a little nervous
> trying to get off with someone they just met. It's that nervousness that
> contributes to the mixed messages that your penis is getting. If you are
> nervous, your body is reacting by restricting blood flow to the penis,
> counteracting the stimulus that you are receiving from her.
>
> Relax the best you can. Why tell her to stop? If you can cum while she is
> blowing you, go ahead and do it. I did, and I still felt the experience was
> worth it.
>
> Michael
>
> "Liam" <wallydiver_19@hotmail.com> wrote in message
> news:1153332931.110477.256510@s13g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
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| Ari Flisherman 2006-07-25, 4:22 pm |
| I had this happen when I was 25 because I was nervous.
"Liam" <wallydiver_19@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:1153332931.110477.256510@s13g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
> Hi there,
>
> just turned fifty........ :-(
> Anyhow becuse of long time social isolation (sexual) , I decided for my
> birthday to go see a chick, an oriental chick that advertises in the
> paper. I must admit I was really nervous because of the circomstance
> (paying) and because it was a very long time i haven't got laid.
> Anyhow she starts to blow me, and within seconds, I can feel it
> starting to come thru, even not erected, and it was whoa, hold on. I
> was embarassed to tell her to stop.
>
> Another time the same ting happen this beautiful chick started wacking
> me off, and within a minute I was coming, didn't have a chance to get
> hard.
>
> So now I don't know if this is because I'm getting old, or because I'm
> not getting laid regularly.
>
> Thanks kindly for any pointers
>
>
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