Impotence Support - help me....over 50, now!!!

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help me....over 50, now!!!

Michael

2006-04-10, 1:05 am

I guess I'm pretty unusual. I've always had erection problems when I'm with
a woman. When I was a teen, I thought that I had a very normal strong sex
drive, masturbating to everything female, but when I had my first make out
session at 18, I noticed that I didn't get an erection the whole time!

So, now I'm thinking...I wonder if something is wrong with me. A year or
two, later, I'm making out with a college friend that I knew for an hour or
two, touching her breastsm etc, and no erection....not even a little. Som
now I'm thinking...yikes, I'm afraid now to go any farther with a woman.
When a date of mine wanted to go into her apartment, I made up an excuse
telling her that I didn't believe in sex before marriage. Whew! Good excuse,
huh?

So, I have no physical contact with females until I'm 23. By that age I am
so horny that I don't know what to do. So, I find a 'massage parlor' for
release where this very nice lady unexpectedly brings me to orgasm with her
hand. I was surprised that I reacted to that, so I figure that I'll try it
again, a week or two later. But that time it's a disaster, a different lady
tries it and I tighten up and she has to stop because she is getting nowhere
(what a waste of money!)

By 25, I get a girlfriend....again no erections when we kiss. We get
engaged. She tried to fondle my penis and kiss it for the first time. No
erection! I'm wondering whether she will marry me. Fortunately, she is fine
with my line about my religion believing in no sex before marriage. After a
few more tries at oral sex over the next few weeks, she finally gets me to
orgasm. We do that until we get married.

Now I know I have to face the music! Intercourse! Oh, no. I try it on the
wedding night and absolutely nothing. After six weeks of marriage, I'm still
a virgin.

I think of a plan. I will trick my penis. I tell my wife to immediately hop
on me whenever she sees a morning erection. I always have those. In fact, it
seems like I have a hard on, all night long at times. So, eventually it
works! I give up my virginity. What a relief! Whew!

So, anyway, for the next few years, I can have sex about a few times a
month. I thought that was good until I hear guys say that they have sex
several times a day with new relationships! Oh, my God, I figure I'm not
normal.

Anyway, after about 15 years of difficult sex, I see a urologist and 2
counselors. They can do nothing for me. As I start to age, my physical
ability for erections declines. I try drugs like viagra, and it helps
restore some of my function.

The formula I use for having sex is to completely focus on some fantasy with
imaginary women. If I think of my wife or look into her eyes, I will lose my
concentration and my erection. I must escape into fantasy to keep hard and
have an erection.

Fortunately, my wife loves me and puts up with me. For 26 years, now! We had
our problems. I tried several affairs, but couldn't have sex with any of
those women. Hey, that will stop any guy from having affairs! You get sick
of being embarrassed because you can't have sex. So, you see, I could never
divorce her because no other woman would want me with my problem.

Can you imagine what it must be like to be a man and not have sex with who
you want or when you want...for your whole life!!!????!!! What's wrong with
me?

So far I have tried 50 mg.of viagra. It seemed to have worked most of the
time, but it seems hard to come. Why is that?

So then, I tried 20 mg, of cialis. It doesn't seem to kick in very well
after an hour. So, I lose my confidence again and start believing that I'll
go back to the pattern of the last 25 years!!! So, now, nothing seems to
work. I can't even get hard during oral sex, now.

Thank God for masturbation. That still works. But I guess I'm washed up at
age 52?
If not, should I try another drug?? Should I try different doses of Viagra?
Why is it harder to come with that drug? I've already tried a higher dose of
Cialis

Jerry Sturdivant

2006-04-10, 11:03 am

"Michael" <nirvana@comcast.net> wrote

> If not, should I try another drug?? Should I try different doses of
> Viagra?
> Why is it harder to come with that drug? I've already tried a higher dose
> of
> Cialis

Has your urologists tried injections yet?

Jerry of ASI

Michael

2006-04-11, 1:01 am

No injections. What that be testosterone?
I don't think I have a physical problem, because I can get hard erections at
night or through masturbation.

"Jerry Sturdivant" <jerryst@cox.net> wrote in message
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Jerry Sturdivant

2006-04-11, 11:03 am

> No injections. What that be testosterone?

No. Injections for erections. It's like Viagra in a needle. Read some of the
past posts here. Like many others, I've switched over to the injections. The
pills require empty stomach and have side effects I don't care for. With
injections; you're erect in a matter of minutes.

Jerry of ASI

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No injections. What that be testosterone?
I don't think I have a physical problem, because I can get hard erections at
night or through masturbation.

"Jerry Sturdivant" <jerryst@cox.net> wrote in message
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> "Michael" <nirvana@comcast.net> wrote
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> Has your urologists tried injections yet?
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> Jerry of ASI
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Michael

2006-04-11, 1:04 pm

Oh...injections is the penis!

Yes, my urologist tried that with me. Stabbing my dick was very traumatic
for me....it would eventually make me completely lose the mood for sex, just
anticipating it. Nope...puncturing my penis is just too much for
me.*shudder*

"Jerry Sturdivant" <jerryst@cox.net> wrote in message
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> No. Injections for erections. It's like Viagra in a needle. Read some of
> the
> past posts here. Like many others, I've switched over to the injections.
> The
> pills require empty stomach and have side effects I don't care for. With
> injections; you're erect in a matter of minutes.
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> Jerry of ASI
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> "Michael" <nirvana@comcast.net> wrote in message
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> No injections. What that be testosterone?
> I don't think I have a physical problem, because I can get hard erections
> at
> night or through masturbation.
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> "Jerry Sturdivant" <jerryst@cox.net> wrote in message
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