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Psychological Impotence
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| nick72_72 2005-06-20, 11:47 am |
| Hi,
I'm quite positive I have psychological impotence due to performace
anxiety. My reasons for believing this are:
1. During foreplay I am turned on with an erection. Once it gets to the
sex part and I have to put on a condom, I loose my erection very
quickly. I can feel the desire going out of me as the anxiety
increases.
2. I have visited three prostitutes in the past and had no trouble at
all with my erection. If anything, the experience was the opposite and
I had no control over a relatively quick orgrasm. In this case, I had
no fear about my performace since I wasn't interested in pleasing her.
So, what now? Do I go straight to a psychologist? Or do I see a
urologist first? I have just ordered some generic viagra and am hoping
that this helps.
Thoughts? Recommendations? (And, just to note lest this this go off
topic, I am not visiting or planning on visiting any more prostitutes.)
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| quizzical_look 2005-06-20, 10:48 pm |
| nick72_72 wrote:
> Hi,
>
> I'm quite positive I have psychological impotence due to performace
> anxiety. My reasons for believing this are:
>
> 1. During foreplay I am turned on with an erection. Once it gets to the
> sex part and I have to put on a condom, I loose my erection very
> quickly. I can feel the desire going out of me as the anxiety
> increases.
> So, what now? Do I go straight to a psychologist? Or do I see a
> urologist first? I have just ordered some generic viagra and am hoping
> that this helps.
You should probably consult a doctor before using Viagra, but I'd say it
will help - just don't stress about using it or let it make you become
less relaxed. Make sure you don't eat anything for 3+ hours before
taking it!
You don't mention how many times this has happened, if it has been
happening all your life, during masturbation etc??
Generally if you become comfortable with a sexual partner, perhaps admit
to them that you are nervous and that you are affected by that, before
too long the problem goes away.
q
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