| ArgentAge 2004-08-28, 10:07 pm |
| On Fri, 18 Jun 2004 12:42:07 -0400, Wakin' up
<DELETEjohns12@softhome.net> wrote:
I know this is an old thread but I'm catching up after being away -
I've noticed the sleep thing too. I've had V fail on me, fallen asleep
with my partner and then wake around an hour later well and truly
ready to go. I put it down to being very relaxed. Mornings are fine
too.
>I'd second most of the advice given here and I'll add my own
>experience of also performing best after sleeping. I figured it was
>because I was most relaxed and my mind was mostly out of the way. I
>used to have a girlfriend who realized this (even though I wasn't able
>to talk about it) and she would purposely catch me in the night when
>I'd been sleeping and mount me for a ride. (I never complained)
>
>Just taking the time out for condoms will usually break my momentum
>and make me lose an erection. As a result I've kept myself out of
>relationships for some years.
>
>I've just started seeing a psychologist (1 visit so far) who is also a
>hypnothrerapist and Neuro Linguistic Programming practicioner. Both
>of these tecniques hold some potential I think. It might take a
>while (once a week sessions) but I'll report back if I have any
>success with this avenue.
>
>Good luck.
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