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| My wife want it over with as soon as possible. I suffer from PE but
she says it does not bother her. She has trouble having orgasms. She
has just recently (last year) allowed me to use my mouth. She says it
does not do anything for her. A year ago one timeshe said it felt
great. Since then she says it seems I cant hit the spot. I can with my
finger rubbing in a circular motion. What techniques should I use?
(This is a serious question!)
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| William Koloff 2004-08-19, 7:09 pm |
| The finger is great.You just have to experiment to find the rght spots.
Another popular item Is the Hitachi Wand. Women have used it for
thmselves for years. Do a Google search. It is about $49 and is now
available in a cordless model.
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| Amy;
Why do take this shit from him ?
Maybe you two should go into counseling
If he doesn't want to go, find someone else.
Also, don't answer the creep that wants to know what you like.
Herb
"Amy" <amy.lasher@veirzon.net> wrote in message
news:Xns95485AEE4B799twinkie28@199.45.49.11...
> "Herb" <fred@aol.com> wrote in
> news:FlfUc.24391$nx2.6906@newsread2.news.atl.earthlink.net:
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> Nothing I can do, then. Oh well.
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| He probably blames you for his ED, which is udder and total bullshit !!!
Herb
..> It's nice to see men with ED that actually think of their woman's needs
> too. I, unfortunately, am not in that kind of relationship. I don't
think
> it's just his ED bothering him. I think he hates my weight. I'm not
> really that big, he just can't stand women with meat on their bones.
Makes
> me wonder why he married me.
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| Doktor 2004-08-21, 2:10 am |
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"Amy" <amy.lasher@veirzon.net> wrote in message
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> "ernestnolan" <emiles@stny.rr.com> wrote in
> news:VQ8Uc.151136$bp1.81205@twister.nyroc.rr.com:
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> It's nice to see men with ED that actually think of their woman's needs
> too. I, unfortunately, am not in that kind of relationship. I don't
think
> it's just his ED bothering him. I think he hates my weight. I'm not
> really that big, he just can't stand women with meat on their bones.
Makes
> me wonder why he married me.
It depends what you mean by meat on your bones. LOL Regardless of how good
looking a woman is a man will lose interest in a few months. Try him with
Paris Hilton and see if he still has ED :o)
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| Jerry Sturdivant 2004-08-21, 11:14 am |
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"Amy" <amy.lasher@veirzon.net> wrote
> I'd like to be something besides ignored and that's all you
> need to know.
It's possible he has ED and doesn't want to talk about it. There is another
group of mostly just women that are experiencing the same problem. You might
join that group. It is an offshoot of this one and was started by a women
friend of this group:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/supportEDpartners
Jerry of ASI
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| rabbit <rabbit@mailinator.net> wrote in
news:Xns9549B854B9FCFMyemailaddressnet@140.99.99.130:
> Amy <amy.lasher@verizon.net> wrote in news:Xns9548AB9B55E72twinkie28@
> 199.45.49.11:
> Amy,
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> You've expressed here very effectively that you are devoted to your
> husband and that you want to be closer to him. I wonder if you've
> talked openly with him and in a non-threatening way about your sense
> that he may not be as attracted to you as he once was; and how you
> would love to have more physical and emotional intimacy with him in
> the form of positive and fun activities both in bed and out,
We haven't even been married a year yet. There's been nothing from the
beginning.
and that
> anatomical penetration isn't nearly as important to you as sharing and
> enjoying each other's emotional space. It sounds like you have a
> foundation of love to base that on and to do it convincingly. If
> you've been having trouble communicating to him what you're feeling
> without him becoming defensive or turning away, maybe it would help to
> out a neutral and trusted third party, like a counselor or clergy
> member, to help facilitate understanding. I would not be surprised if
> your husband is feeling similar frustrations as you are; he may simply
> be acting them out differently than you would wish or understand right
> now.
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I hope you're right.
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| Jerry Sturdivant 2004-08-25, 11:34 am |
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"Amy" <amy.lasher@veirzon.net> wrote
> I'd like to be something besides ignored and that's all you
> need to know.
It's possible he has ED and doesn't want to talk about it. There is another
group of mostly just women that are experiencing the same problem. You might
join that group. It is an offshoot of this one and was started by a women
friend of this group:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/supportEDpartners
Jerry of ASI
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| rabbit 2004-08-25, 11:34 am |
| Amy <amy.lasher@veirzon.net> wrote in news:Xns9548AB9B55E72twinkie28@
199.45.49.11:
> I'd like to be something besides ignored and that's all you need to know.
Amy,
You've expressed here very effectively that you are devoted to your husband
and that you want to be closer to him. I wonder if you've talked openly
with him and in a non-threatening way about your sense that he may not be
as attracted to you as he once was; and how you would love to have more
physical and emotional intimacy with him in the form of positive and fun
activities both in bed and out, and that anatomical penetration isn't
nearly as important to you as sharing and enjoying each other's emotional
space. It sounds like you have a foundation of love to base that on and to
do it convincingly. If you've been having trouble communicating to him what
you're feeling without him becoming defensive or turning away, maybe it
would help to out a neutral and trusted third party, like a counselor or
clergy member, to help facilitate understanding. I would not be surprised
if your husband is feeling similar frustrations as you are; he may simply
be acting them out differently than you would wish or understand right now.
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