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what am I doing wrong
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| But how can I properly do oral?
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| Have you wife tell you what feels good and what doesn't. Move to different
areas of her vagina and
ask her "how about here", etc
Have her show you with her finger where it feels good to her
Hope this helps
Herb
"Don" <tiredofthis12001@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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> But how can I properly do oral?
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| STEPHEN WALCUTT 2004-08-19, 11:08 am |
| When your tongue is "spot on" try writing the alphabet
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| Don;
Not all women are the same, Some prefer oral sex, and others don't.
Why do you feel compelled to satify your wife orally, if she doen't care for
it ?
Herb
"Don" <tiredofthis12001@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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> "When using the finger in a circular motion I can find "the spot"
> Using my tongue on the same spot she cant feel anything. I have tried
> the whole area too. I thought women prefered oral to one finger?
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> One time I found the spot with the tongue but since then she cant feel
> anything.
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> Anything different I can try with that or the finger other than using
> my finger to rub the clit in a circular motion?
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| c palmer 2004-08-19, 7:09 pm |
| hi don - stats show that about 1/4th of the female population have a
condition called, "female arousal disorder" for some reason, they don't
get blood flowing as much as it should in the genital area. and
therefore, the organ doesn't respond as well. they have discuss this
issue on various talk shows.
when i was counselling, i've had women tell me of conditions like this.
they love their husbands very much, but something is not right and they
don't want to cheat. they feel something is wrong, but don't know how
to fix it.
there are also help in this area also. everything from something
called, "dream cream" which is a locally applied cream which opens up
the blood vessels and increases blood flow. sorta like a female viagra.
as well as pills for this function too.
a woman will tell you that what works one time, won't work the next.
the female comedians make jokes about it. one of them jokes about men
and women and eating. said it must be nice to be a man because
everytime, they go to a buffet, they always get their fill. but the
women, sometime they get their fill, other times, they are on a diet.
sometimes the food is good. other times, they send it back. sometimes,
they want to cook for themselves. and sometimes they know that the
train is on the tracks but it's not going to pull into the station.
that somewhere, way back, the train got derailed, and the man is trying
so hard to make it happen, but you know better, so that is why they fake
the big "O".
guess this just goes to show why men are from mars and women are from
venus.
hope this helps.
~ curtis
knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
"Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is
invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
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| Why don't you sit down and have a talk with her. You said she wants to get
it over with as soon
as possible. Seems she doesn't like sex.
You both need to attack the situation. Your problem is far greater than
trying to give oral sex.
If she doesn't want to change, the best blow job in the world won't help
Herb
"Don" <tiredofthis12001@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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> Beacuse the one time it did work her reaction was that it was much
> better.
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> The thing is, she does not like for me to do anything to her. (Or at
> least this is how she acts). I have to ask her if I "can" do something
> to her.
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| Beacuse the one time it did work her reaction was that it was much
better.
The thing is, she does not like for me to do anything to her. (Or at
least this is how she acts). I have to ask her if I "can" do something
to her.
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| STEPHEN WALCUTT 2004-08-25, 11:34 am |
| When your tongue is "spot on" try writing the alphabet
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| c palmer 2004-08-25, 11:34 am |
| hi don - stats show that about 1/4th of the female population have a
condition called, "female arousal disorder" for some reason, they don't
get blood flowing as much as it should in the genital area. and
therefore, the organ doesn't respond as well. they have discuss this
issue on various talk shows.
when i was counselling, i've had women tell me of conditions like this.
they love their husbands very much, but something is not right and they
don't want to cheat. they feel something is wrong, but don't know how
to fix it.
there are also help in this area also. everything from something
called, "dream cream" which is a locally applied cream which opens up
the blood vessels and increases blood flow. sorta like a female viagra.
as well as pills for this function too.
a woman will tell you that what works one time, won't work the next.
the female comedians make jokes about it. one of them jokes about men
and women and eating. said it must be nice to be a man because
everytime, they go to a buffet, they always get their fill. but the
women, sometime they get their fill, other times, they are on a diet.
sometimes the food is good. other times, they send it back. sometimes,
they want to cook for themselves. and sometimes they know that the
train is on the tracks but it's not going to pull into the station.
that somewhere, way back, the train got derailed, and the man is trying
so hard to make it happen, but you know better, so that is why they fake
the big "O".
guess this just goes to show why men are from mars and women are from
venus.
hope this helps.
~ curtis
knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
"Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is
invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
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