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Don

2004-08-16, 7:10 pm

But how can I properly do oral?
Herb

2004-08-16, 7:10 pm

Have you wife tell you what feels good and what doesn't. Move to different
areas of her vagina and
ask her "how about here", etc

Have her show you with her finger where it feels good to her


Hope this helps
Herb



"Don" <tiredofthis12001@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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> But how can I properly do oral?



Don

2004-08-17, 11:08 am

"When using the finger in a circular motion I can find "the spot"
Using my tongue on the same spot she cant feel anything. I have tried
the whole area too. I thought women prefered oral to one finger?

One time I found the spot with the tongue but since then she cant feel
anything.

Anything different I can try with that or the finger other than using
my finger to rub the clit in a circular motion?
Herb

2004-08-17, 11:08 am

Don;

Not all women are the same, Some prefer oral sex, and others don't.

Why do you feel compelled to satify your wife orally, if she doen't care for
it ?

Herb





"Don" <tiredofthis12001@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:e647cf2.0408170432.7ab1542@posting.google.com...
> "When using the finger in a circular motion I can find "the spot"
> Using my tongue on the same spot she cant feel anything. I have tried
> the whole area too. I thought women prefered oral to one finger?
>
> One time I found the spot with the tongue but since then she cant feel
> anything.
>
> Anything different I can try with that or the finger other than using
> my finger to rub the clit in a circular motion?



William Koloff

2004-08-17, 11:08 am

Have your partner take your finger and have HER move it so that she
reaches the
spots she likes. Have her manipulate your finger until she raches
orgasm. This will show you the spots she likes and the variations she
likes in spped and pressure.

Don

2004-08-17, 11:08 am

"When using the finger in a circular motion I can find "the spot"
Using my tongue on the same spot she cant feel anything. I have tried
the whole area too. I thought women prefered oral to one finger?

One time I found the spot with the tongue but since then she cant feel
anything.

Anything different I can try with that or the finger other than using
my finger to rub the clit in a circular motion?
Don

2004-08-17, 7:12 pm

Beacuse the one time it did work her reaction was that it was much
better.

The thing is, she does not like for me to do anything to her. (Or at
least this is how she acts). I have to ask her if I "can" do something
to her.
Herb

2004-08-17, 7:12 pm

Why don't you sit down and have a talk with her. You said she wants to get
it over with as soon
as possible. Seems she doesn't like sex.

You both need to attack the situation. Your problem is far greater than
trying to give oral sex.

If she doesn't want to change, the best blow job in the world won't help

Herb





"Don" <tiredofthis12001@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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> Beacuse the one time it did work her reaction was that it was much
> better.
>
> The thing is, she does not like for me to do anything to her. (Or at
> least this is how she acts). I have to ask her if I "can" do something
> to her.



William Koloff

2004-08-20, 10:16 pm

Have your partner take your finger and have HER move it so that she
reaches the
spots she likes. Have her manipulate your finger until she raches
orgasm. This will show you the spots she likes and the variations she
likes in spped and pressure.

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