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Is there a cure for being "premature"?
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| I have suffered this my whole life and last about 2 minutes. It is
frustrating. Tried ssri's. Paxil delayed it some but only a minute.
Tried clomprimine a long time ago. Took one pill and could not get
"up" for the occassion.
I have some EMLA creme and thought of using that but have heard it can
cause problems getting up too because it gets numb.
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| avsaleATCOXDOTNET 2004-08-11, 10:02 pm |
| Have you tried extra thick condoms to last longer?
Maybe masturbating earlier in the day, so you're not as aroused later
on?
On 11 Aug 2004 12:45:25 -0700, tiredofthis12001@yahoo.com (Don) wrote:
>I have suffered this my whole life and last about 2 minutes. It is
>frustrating. Tried ssri's. Paxil delayed it some but only a minute.
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>Tried clomprimine a long time ago. Took one pill and could not get
>"up" for the occassion.
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>I have some EMLA creme and thought of using that but have heard it can
>cause problems getting up too because it gets numb.
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| Top Sarge69 2004-08-12, 2:17 am |
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| In <e647cf2.0408111145.6f77cd0f@posting.google.com>, tiredofthis12001@yahoo.com (Don) writes:
>I have suffered this my whole life and last about 2 minutes. It is
>frustrating. Tried ssri's. Paxil delayed it some but only a minute.
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>Tried clomprimine a long time ago. Took one pill and could not get
>"up" for the occassion.
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>I have some EMLA creme and thought of using that but have heard it can
>cause problems getting up too because it gets numb.
Don't throw the creme away -- check and see that it's
at least 7.5% benzocaine though. Pick up a pack of
heavy, lubed condoms. Preferably, with a mild anesthetic
on the inside surface.
Here's one that works for me and it works for my wife. This
has been a real godsend ever since P.E. hit me several years ago.
If anything it's been a great improvement over doing things
'naturally.'
Use Viagra to gain some endurance. When you first become
erect add some benzocaine (7.5%) anesthetic ointment (Doc
Johnson's, Prolong, etc.) to the inside of a condom & put it on.
(don't touch the anesthetic though!!) Have your wife massage
the condom till you just start to feel numb--10-15 seconds
should be enough.
Continue to wear the condom to prevent anesthetizing your
mate. Your numbing should increase but the Viagra will carry you.
I've learned to tolerate & actually enjoy the numbness. Play
however your like--when you decide to wrap up the session, pull
off the condom and get back to work. Vaginal fluids will begin to
clean you up with a rapid increase in sensitivity. After several
minutes of action you should cum normally. (keep in mind that
everyone's mileage varies)
My wife was a 'condom hater' for years but has found the rewards
in this technique and gladly supports the whole routine. (Us guys
never understand multiple or enduring orgasms.) (;-)
Regards, "Mike"
-- mikeellison3xxxatzzzyahoo.com --
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| I have talked ot my wife about this and she does not like the idea of
stopping and "squeezing". She says most of the time it does not bother
her lasting just 2 minutes but it bothers me. SHe just can understand.
I have even debating trying to get the shots to maintain an errection
after ejaculation. I would have done it already if I was not afraid of
needles.
I have tried anti depressents and also numbing agents.
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| I have, it does not help.
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| Top Sarge69 2004-08-18, 7:09 pm |
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