Impotence Support - Performance Anxiety

Author

Performance Anxiety

Mark

2004-10-16, 7:07 pm

Hi,

I am 19 and I am still a virgin.

The last few times I nearly had sex I would be making out very heavily
with a girl and have a raging erection. Yet whenever she touched my
dick I get nervous and it goes soft

There is nothing physically wrong with me because I can masturbate for
hours at a time (on my own). And it is not that I am not attracted to
the girls either... the last one in particular! 18 year old, great
body, amazing XXX, I'm getting hard just thinking about her... yet
when she is lying naked in my bed I go limp!!!

I don't want to try viagra because:

a) There is nothing physically wrong with me.
b) I feel I am too young to become dependant on a drug like that.
c) I am a starving student and could not afford it on a long term
basis anyway.

Is it true that there are certain foods to increase testosterone level
and sex drive?

Are there any mental/mind techniques to overcoming my problem?

Any other suggestions?

Thanks for reading this.

Bass man

2004-10-16, 7:07 pm

You're normal. Just honest. And be honest. Eventually you'll do
better.

Mark wrote:
> Hi,
>
> I am 19 and I am still a virgin.
>
> The last few times I nearly had sex I would be making out very heavily
> with a girl and have a raging erection. Yet whenever she touched my
> dick I get nervous and it goes soft

>
> There is nothing physically wrong with me because I can masturbate for
> hours at a time (on my own). And it is not that I am not attracted to
> the girls either... the last one in particular! 18 year old, great
> body, amazing XXX, I'm getting hard just thinking about her... yet
> when she is lying naked in my bed I go limp!!!
>
> I don't want to try viagra because:
>
> a) There is nothing physically wrong with me.
> b) I feel I am too young to become dependant on a drug like that.
> c) I am a starving student and could not afford it on a long term
> basis anyway.
>
> Is it true that there are certain foods to increase testosterone level
> and sex drive?
>
> Are there any mental/mind techniques to overcoming my problem?
>
> Any other suggestions?
>
> Thanks for reading this.

D Hamilton

2004-10-16, 7:07 pm

On 16 Oct 2004 09:38:35 -0700, marksmith_156@yahoo.co.uk (Mark) wrote:

>Hi,
>
>I am 19 and I am still a virgin.
>
>The last few times I nearly had sex I would be making out very heavily
>with a girl and have a raging erection. Yet whenever she touched my
>dick I get nervous and it goes soft

>
>There is nothing physically wrong with me because I can masturbate for
>hours at a time (on my own). And it is not that I am not attracted to
>the girls either... the last one in particular! 18 year old, great
>body, amazing XXX, I'm getting hard just thinking about her... yet
>when she is lying naked in my bed I go limp!!!
>
>I don't want to try viagra because:
>
>a) There is nothing physically wrong with me.
>b) I feel I am too young to become dependant on a drug like that.
>c) I am a starving student and could not afford it on a long term
>basis anyway.
>
>Is it true that there are certain foods to increase testosterone level
>and sex drive?
>
>Are there any mental/mind techniques to overcoming my problem?
>
>Any other suggestions?
>
>Thanks for reading this.

You might try Viagra once. Just for the psychological boost. A buddy
of mine has diabetes and thought he was experiencing ED related to
that. His doc gave him Viagra to try. My friend used it once and
hasn't touched it since. He says knowing its in the drawer if he needs
it makes him feel better and boosts his confidence.

ernestnolan

2004-10-16, 7:07 pm

Hi,

Not kidding here but when you get close to wanting to have sex with a SO,
let the other know you have never been able to get past this moment and you
will find a volunteer to lay with you for hours dedicated to being your cure
for this.

Some of us had less trouble but I can remember the slow pace I chose for
getting intimate nearly drove the wife crazy.

Nothing better than being a virgin and in need of special TLS. You just have
to sell it right or they won't believe you. What kind of idiot do you think
I am will go thru her head.

Good luck,

ernestnolan

"Mark" <marksmith_156@yahoo.co.uk> wrote in message
news:e52d6693.0410160838.284ce517@posting.google.com...
> Hi,
>
> I am 19 and I am still a virgin.
>
> The last few times I nearly had sex I would be making out very heavily
> with a girl and have a raging erection. Yet whenever she touched my
> dick I get nervous and it goes soft

Jerry Sturdivant

2004-10-17, 11:06 am

"Mark" <marksmith_156@yahoo.co.uk> wrote

> The last few times I nearly had sex I would be making out
> very heavily with a girl and have a raging erection. Yet
> whenever she touched my dick I get nervous and it goes soft
>

Sometimes location is a problem. The old, "We might get caught" problem. So
you might try a location change. Another suggestion is to have her
masturbate you a time or two.

Jerry of ASI

Bass man

2004-10-17, 7:07 pm

My first few times at your age resulted in similar results. Honesty
would have been the best policy.

Performance anxiety returns with each new relationship - it's a
universal. How we deal with it makes a huge difference.

Play with no expectations is a great start.

ernestnolan wrote:

> Hi,
>
> Not kidding here but when you get close to wanting to have sex with a SO,
> let the other know you have never been able to get past this moment and you
> will find a volunteer to lay with you for hours dedicated to being your cure
> for this.
>
> Some of us had less trouble but I can remember the slow pace I chose for
> getting intimate nearly drove the wife crazy.
>
> Nothing better than being a virgin and in need of special TLS. You just have
> to sell it right or they won't believe you. What kind of idiot do you think
> I am will go thru her head.
>
> Good luck,
>
> ernestnolan
>
> "Mark" <marksmith_156@yahoo.co.uk> wrote in message
> news:e52d6693.0410160838.284ce517@posting.google.com...
>
>
>
>

Bass man

2004-10-19, 7:10 pm