| natalya35@hotmail.com 2004-09-21, 2:35 am |
| On Sun, 19 Sep 2004 03:36:06 GMT, Mr. Jite <rjite@houston.rr.com>
wrote:
>This is a reply to natalya35@hotmail.com who most probably will not
>like what I am going to say:
>
>
>Everything is not about you Nat.
>And again, never the issue at hand, only the choice of adjectives.
>I told the truth in that paragraph and everything Conscience said was
>a lie. And its all the same to you. That is the problem.
>Its like because they had a war, hitler and fdr are equal.
>Its a crock.
I know well everything is NOT about me. I particularly picked this
example because it involved more than just one person using it. There
was no harm in asking was there? I beg again, just one phrase change.
I really don't want build a kill file on that phrase as I might miss
quite a lot of good things. I am not asking forever, just until I can
handle it. It would be a support thing. I did not say you did not
tell the truth and it is not all the same to me, you are
misinterpreting me, it is about the phrase. I guess I'll have to find
other means. I meant no offense to you RJ, I would have written what
I did to anyone else who had used it. My focus was not on either you
or Conscience, it could have been, but the phrase got in my way. Yes
I have some emotional issues with this. No I don't expect the world
to revolve around me - it is why I decline offers to go out and stay
housebound next to my private toilet. I encourage my husband to go
out to all the social events and just say I am under the weather if
asked. If it WERE all about me I would tell all I know to cancel all
events that I cannot attend. That would not make sense. Like I said,
their at least was no harm in trying. With all the words in the
English language I thought it would be relatively easy to come up with
something equally insulting and offensive but not cause grief to a
member with a legit medial issue that is humiliating by its very
nature. I guess I was wrong. Be well.
Nat
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>"This is an impressive crowd. The Haves and the Have Mores.
> Some people call you 'the elite'. I call you 'my base'".
> George W Bush on the Campaign Trail http://rackjite.com
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