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| Read this post in connection with the previous post on:
Open mindedness , clues on alcoholism , resentment, PTSD
If you type in the following words in the search this group feature on
alt.recovery.aa these are the results you will get.
49 results for rage at my parents
220 results for anger at my dad
54 results for hatred of my dad
36 results for pissed at my parents
89 results for rage at my dad
90 results for pissed at my dad
7 results for hostility towards my dad
249 results for hate my dad
213 results for angry at my dad
113 results for hated my dad
19 results for resented my dad
38 results for rage at my mom
53 results for pissed at my mom5 results for resented my mom
83 results for angry at my mom
20 results for hatred of my mom
101 results for anger at my mom
116 results for hate my mom
46 results for hated my mom
I could go on but if you are sensible you get the point on how often
the topic comes up on AA related site. Dont pay any attention to these
naysayers here. They just dont understand yet, maybe they will never
understand. Maybe they dont want to understand.
Http://Christianrecovery.blogspot.com
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| nipntuk 2005-06-10, 5:47 pm |
| On 10 Jun 2005 15:25:10 -0700, "tedw" <tedw2@earthlink.net> wrote:
>Read this post in connection with the previous post on:
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>Open mindedness , clues on alcoholism , resentment, PTSD
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>
>If you type in the following words in the search this group feature on
>alt.recovery.aa these are the results you will get.
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>
>49 results for rage at my parents
>220 results for anger at my dad
>54 results for hatred of my dad
>36 results for pissed at my parents
>89 results for rage at my dad
>90 results for pissed at my dad
>7 results for hostility towards my dad
>249 results for hate my dad
>213 results for angry at my dad
>113 results for hated my dad
>
>19 results for resented my dad
>38 results for rage at my mom
>53 results for pissed at my mom5 results for resented my mom
>83 results for angry at my mom
>20 results for hatred of my mom
>101 results for anger at my mom
>116 results for hate my mom
>46 results for hated my mom
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>I could go on but if you are sensible you get the point on how often
>the topic comes up on AA related site. Dont pay any attention to these
>naysayers here. They just dont understand yet, maybe they will never
>understand. Maybe they dont want to understand.
>
>Http://Christianrecovery.blogspot.com
1 result for incredibly stupid wastes of time. Out of the multiples
of tens of thousands of posts over the years of this group, those are
a tiny fraction by the numbers. If you factor redundency - that many
of those will be mulitple references within single posts - it's an
even less insignificant number. Get a life, ted. Crusader that you
are, maybe you could sign up for a stint in Iraq.
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| Mark Warner 2005-06-10, 10:46 pm |
| tedw wrote:
> Read this post in connection with the previous post on:
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> Open mindedness , clues on alcoholism , resentment, PTSD
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> If you type in the following words in the search this group feature on
> alt.recovery.aa these are the results you will get.
>
> 49 results for rage at my parents
> 220 results for anger at my dad
> 54 results for hatred of my dad
> 36 results for pissed at my parents
> 89 results for rage at my dad
> 90 results for pissed at my dad
> 7 results for hostility towards my dad
> 249 results for hate my dad
> 213 results for angry at my dad
> 113 results for hated my dad
>
> 19 results for resented my dad
> 38 results for rage at my mom
> 53 results for pissed at my mom5 results for resented my mom
> 83 results for angry at my mom
> 20 results for hatred of my mom
> 101 results for anger at my mom
> 116 results for hate my mom
> 46 results for hated my mom
>
> I could go on but if you are sensible you get the point on how often
> the topic comes up on AA related site. Dont pay any attention to these
> naysayers here. They just dont understand yet, maybe they will never
> understand. Maybe they dont want to understand.
>
> Http://Christianrecovery.blogspot.com
Here's a few more:
"idiot" 2350 hits
"bullshit" 5210 hits
"XXXX you" 796 hits
I could go on but if you are sensible you get the point on how your
posts are received.
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Mark Warner
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| Resentment is the problem. The Big Book says so. You learned to hate as
a child. The persons you hated were the sinners that were there (your
parents)who failed you. From there the hatred spread to the world.
Elimante resentment from your life ( conscious and repressed) and find
true freedom.
Mark Warner wrote:
> tedw wrote:
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> Here's a few more:
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> "idiot" 2350 hits
> "bullshit" 5210 hits
> "XXXX you" 796 hits
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> I could go on but if you are sensible you get the point on how your
> posts are received.
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> --
> Mark Warner
> lose .inhibitions when replying
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| On 10 Jun 2005 21:00:34 -0700, "tedw" <tedw2@earthlink.net> wrote:
>The persons you hated were the sinners that were there (your
>parents)who failed you. From there the hatred spread to the world.
Now we can have a rant about how aa endorses parenthood.
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| Craig S. 2005-06-11, 8:48 am |
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"tedw" <tedw2@earthlink.net> wrote in message
news:1118442310.487722.27770@f14g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
> If you type in the following words in the search this group feature on
> alt.recovery.aa these are the results you will get.
>
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> 49 results for rage at my parents
> 220 results for anger at my dad
> 54 results for hatred of my dad
> 36 results for pissed at my parents
> 89 results for rage at my dad
> 90 results for pissed at my dad
> 7 results for hostility towards my dad
> 249 results for hate my dad
> 213 results for angry at my dad
> 113 results for hated my dad
>
> 19 results for resented my dad
> 38 results for rage at my mom
> 53 results for pissed at my mom5 results for resented my mom
> 83 results for angry at my mom
> 20 results for hatred of my mom
> 101 results for anger at my mom
> 116 results for hate my mom
> 46 results for hated my mom
Yeah, but Diana doesn't post here anymore.
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| Mark Warner 2005-06-11, 8:48 am |
| Craig S. wrote:
> "tedw" wrote
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> Yeah, but Diana doesn't post here anymore.
Bravo!
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| NutSoFast@hotmail.com 2005-06-11, 8:48 am |
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On 10-Jun-2005, "tedw" <tedw2@earthlink.net> wrote:
> Resentment is the problem. The Big Book says so. You learned to hate as
> a child. The persons you hated were the sinners that were there (your
> parents)who failed you. From there the hatred spread to the world.
>
> Elimante resentment from your life ( conscious and repressed) and find
> true freedom.
Yeah, but isn't that merely putting a BandAid on your problem??
If what you say is true (and I don't doubt that it is)... resentment
is but a symptom of the real trouble. If we are going to end
hatred and keep it from spreading worldwide (thus spawning
more alcoholics) we must eradicate hatred at its source: parents.
Initially, we've got to rid the world of moms and dads (aka, the
source of the hatred that creates alcoholics). But once done
we can move on to anyone who looks like they're thinking of
reproducing; only then we will know "true freedom" and find
lasting peace.
It's up to you to lead the charge though Ted... but if you did
I'd follow you anywhere!!!
--
NutSo (aka CW aka C Dub)
"They talk of my drinking but never
my thirst" - Scottish Proverb
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| nipntuk 2005-06-11, 11:46 am |
| On Fri, 10 Jun 2005 16:37:17 -0600, nipntuk <carp_dm@hotmail.com>
wrote:
DOH!!
>...even less insignificant number.
"...even less *significant* number"
Normally I'd say something like, "you get the drift", but in your
case, ted, I take nothing for granted...
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| sportsfan 2005-06-11, 5:46 pm |
| Mark Warner wrote:
> Here's a few more:
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> "idiot" 2350 hits
> "bullshit" 5210 hits
> "XXXX you" 796 hits
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> I could go on but if you are sensible you get the point on how your
> posts are received.
Yeah, XXXX You Ted 797 hits
Yeah, XXXX You Ted 798 hits
Yeah, XXXX You Ted 799 hits
Yeah, XXXX You Ted 800 hits
Yeah, XXXX You Ted 801 hits
Yeah, XXXX You Ted 802 hits.....
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| Mark Warner 2005-06-11, 5:46 pm |
| sportsfan wrote:
> Mark Warner wrote:
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> Yeah, XXXX You Ted 797 hits
> Yeah, XXXX You Ted 798 hits
> Yeah, XXXX You Ted 799 hits
> Yeah, XXXX You Ted 800 hits
> Yeah, XXXX You Ted 801 hits
> Yeah, XXXX You Ted 802 hits.....
I knew you would fit right in.
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Mark Warner
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| SeppDietrich@comcast.net 2005-06-12, 8:46 am |
| A hundred years ago everyone blamed the Devil for their
problems,now,today they blame their parents for their problems.
"Sepp"
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| The truth of the matter is that it is the Devil, operating through
parents. But the Truth is too much for you.
SeppDietrich@comcast.net wrote:
> A hundred years ago everyone blamed the Devil for their
> problems,now,today they blame their parents for their problems.
> "Sepp"
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| Mark Warner 2005-06-12, 8:46 am |
| tedw wrote:
> SeppDietrich@comcast.net wrote:
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> The truth of the matter is that it is the Devil, operating through
> parents. But the Truth is too much for you.
Oh, so it's *not* the parents fault now?????
I'm so confused....
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Mark Warner
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| Tim and Lisa 2005-06-12, 8:46 am |
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"Mark Warner" <mhwarner.inhibitions@insightbb.com> wrote in message
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> tedw wrote:
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> Oh, so it's *not* the parents fault now?????
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> I'm so confused....
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Oh, me too now.
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| stuart 2005-06-12, 8:46 am |
| No such thing as "the devil" Ted. It's a pre-medieval notion used to
describe destructive and insane behaviour not conducive to the well-being of
others.
tedw <tedw2@earthlink.net> wrote in message
news:1118550443.937584.64750@z14g2000cwz.googlegroups.com...
> The truth of the matter is that it is the Devil, operating through
> parents. But the Truth is too much for you.
>
> SeppDietrich@comcast.net wrote:
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| peacefulstar 2005-06-12, 8:46 am |
| Ted ,
All that may be true so what.If we work our steps right we can
change old behaviors.Also break the chain of hurt.We dont have to do as
our parents did!!!!!!
AA changed my feelings to anyone of my past that hurt me or I was
wronged by,so today I have a choice live as the angry at the world
person or become a loving and caring human.(not judging others)
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| On Sat, 11 Jun 2005 23:36:18 -0500, "Mark Warner"
<mhwarner.inhibitions@insightbb.com> wrote:
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>Oh, so it's *not* the parents fault now?????
>
>I'm so confused....
>
>--
>Mark Warner
It is not so confusing if you accept the deduction and
reduction.....it all boils down to it's not my fault nor my glory.
Thank-you Jesus or The Devil made me do it.
I mean all of my drinking was caused by the Devil and his army of
demons and all of my sobriety is Jesus and his angels doing.
Which makes life one big XXXXing cartoon.
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| sportsfan 2005-06-12, 11:47 am |
| Mark Warner wrote:
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> I knew you would fit right in.
That's not the normal me... he seems to bring out a dark side.
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| On Sun, 12 Jun 2005 11:59:22 -0400, "sportsfan"
<nospamplease@fullofit.com> wrote:
>Mark Warner wrote:
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>That's not the normal me... he seems to bring out a dark side.
>
Now that it is out and revealed ....repent and walk in the sunlight of
the spirit.
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| Mark Warner 2005-06-12, 11:47 am |
| sportsfan wrote:
> Mark Warner wrote:
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> That's not the normal me... he seems to bring out a dark side.
I used to say the same thing when I showed my XXX while drunk. "That's
not me -- that was the Demon Rum talkin'."
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| Mark Warner 2005-06-12, 11:47 am |
| Tom wrote:
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> Which makes life one big XXXXing cartoon.
There's a decided "Mickey Mouse" quality about my life as well.
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| Kai Ruuska 2005-06-13, 8:46 am |
| Mark Warner kirjoitti:
> Tom wrote:
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> There's a decided "Mickey Mouse" quality about my life as well.
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Interesting. I've always thought of you as a more Goofy-type fellow.
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Kai
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"Tom" <@4ax.com...
> On Sat, 11 Jun 2005 23:36:18 -0500, "Mark Warner"
> <mhwarner.inhibitions@insightbb.com> wrote:
>
>
> It is not so confusing if you accept the deduction and
> reduction.....it all boils down to it's not my fault nor my glory.
>
> Thank-you Jesus or The Devil made me do it.
>
> I mean all of my drinking was caused by the Devil and his army of
> demons and all of my sobriety is Jesus and his angels doing.
>
> Which makes life one big XXXXing cartoon.
http://www.physicsforums.com/archiv...ytic_Logic.html
shttp://www.physicsforums.com/archive/topic/t-44857_AP_Physics_nee...c_and_Analytic_Logic.htmlection
of this site properly, and you are indeed a non-bi
Before you continue, however, you must ask yourself if you are too arrogant
to accept the fact that what you know to be truth currently, could possibly
be wrong. Are you really willing to accept a change in your beliefs if
adequate evidence is presented, or do you just plan to find out "what is
wrong" with what is presented here?
If you do not possess the humility to accept that what you know to be right
could possibly be incorrect, and if you do not possess the arrogance to
acknowledge that you may be one of few people in a minority that understand
what actually is correct, then don't waste any more of your time here, you
cannot learn and you cannot
http://www.anti-relativity.com/
It really is all relative you know, mums dads aunts uncles,
relative to me, to you, to them, to him, to her, to put it bluntly, read and
learn
I just get so tired trying to get you guys to see that the only opinion that
counts is your own :-)) And that TedW is...,,, well he is.... isn't he?
Cheers
Tommy
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| stuart 2005-06-21, 10:46 pm |
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"Tommy" <tommyleprechaun@everywhere.com> wrote in message
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> "Tom" <@4ax.com...
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> http://www.physicsforums.com/archiv...ytic_Logic.html
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> shttp://www.physicsforums.com/archive/topic/t-44857_AP_Physics_nee...c_and_Analytic_Logic.htmlection
> of this site properly, and you are indeed a non-bi
> Before you continue, however, you must ask yourself if you are too
> arrogant to accept the fact that what you know to be truth currently,
> could possibly be wrong. Are you really willing to accept a change in your
> beliefs if adequate evidence is presented, or do you just plan to find out
> "what is wrong" with what is presented here?
>
>
>
> If you do not possess the humility to accept that what you know to be
> right could possibly be incorrect, and if you do not possess the arrogance
> to acknowledge that you may be one of few people in a minority that
> understand what actually is correct, then don't waste any more of your
> time here, you cannot learn and you cannot
>
> http://www.anti-relativity.com/
> It really is all relative you know, mums dads aunts uncles,
> relative to me, to you, to them, to him, to her, to put it bluntly, read
> and learn
>
> I just get so tired trying to get you guys to see that the only opinion
> that counts is your own :-)) And that TedW is...,,, well he is....
> isn't he?
> Cheers
> Tommy
What TedW proffers here is never his own opinion Tommy. He only offers us
the Lord's opinion, remember? Jesus Christ, I remember my grandad telling me
his grandad's father left the old country because of people like that.
I just pray he's not a neighbour of mine..
Peace be with you my friend...
Stuart
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